Attitude Creates Life Experience

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One’s attitude creates one’s life experience. It affects your behavior, your emotions, and your state of being. The thoughts that you generate are energetically created. If your attitude is negative, that is what you get back in experience. Likewise, if your attitude is positive, your resulting experience will be equal to what you put out into the world. The saying ” Reap what you sow” applies here.

Your life growing up has exposed you to conditioning from your environment. You were born into a family whose culture, beliefs, status, and values became ingrained in you. You accepted what you perceived as how things should be. In some situations, it was accepted as okay because you figured your parents knew best. Or your life growing up was filled with problems, causing you to feel bitter and to think negatively. Over time, as an adult, life events become dramatic, painful, and depressing.

There are many reasons for how and why attitudes develop. Some are very positive, even in difficult times. You hear stories of those who have been through devastating events, yet they remain positive that life will improve, and they begin to manifest better experiences. Then there are those whose life experiences are minimally troubling, and they fall apart emotionally. Why the difference in these two scenarios?

Willpower: Inner Determination

Willpower is an inner determination to stick to something until it is mastered. Seeing something through is a test of your intellectual discipline and power. It is the power to hold on until your goals, dreams, and desires are met. For this author who wanted to give up on life, it was the slap in the face wake-up that I needed, that cry of no, deep from within. My deep desire for my life at the end to have meant more. Giving up would not grant me what I realized I was missing and desired. That moment from deep within was my wakeup call that even at my old age, I wanted my life to have meant more. For this I am sincerely grateful.

You must desire to change. Changing what you think about in a conscious way opens the door to a better quality of life. As new events that bring prosperity and joy, your gratitude increases and, in turn, multiplies the good that enters your life. You must develop willpower deep from within the core of your being. Grit determination and strength will bring you success. Failure comes from the inability to work through the obstacles and difficulties that come your way. Do not give up when the going gets tough. Feel your determination and master the situation as this is a test of your intellectual discipline and power.

It is easy to press on when things are going smoothly. Do not allow a few bumps in the road to make you fearful and give up. Do not do what others do. You must function on your own outside of the crowd.

Having high hopes without willpower only leads to failure. A person without a Will is like an engine without fuel. The strength of your will is the test of your possibilities, allowing you to accomplish anything.

Spiritual Attitude

Your Spiritual attitude develops as you tap into your inner strength and exert your will in your life. As a physical extension of God, you came into this world to live a full and blessed life. You have the free will of God to co-create a life of your desires. Your thoughts are creative; they become form and manifest into your reality based on your intentions and fueled by your emotions. In a world of duality, good and evil, you must learn to master the darkness and negativity thrown into the midst of life. A spiritual attitude must develop within you where you live, think and create from the loving divine child that you are.

Living life your way with a spiritual attitude, coupled with the inner will to create your reality through a focused awareness of your thoughts, places you in full control of your destiny. Your quality of life will improve immensely, and you will grow spiritually as well.

Claim Your Inner Power

Inner power was something I never thought about throughout my life. Life for me was a chronic state of frustration, pain, and difficulties. While I eventually learned that thoughts and emotions are energetic and creative, I continued to create my life by default. Spiritually, I had my ups and downs, good days, and terrible days. Over the years I spent a great deal of time studying the Law of Attraction. Yet, I was stuck in a rut for decades simply because I failed to take corrective action. Why would that be? Was I lazy or just overwhelmed with the trials of a life filled with negativity?

Desire

We all desire a better life. We desire financial freedom, a loving spouse, and a meaningful life. Yet we tend to do nothing about it. We either lack the knowledge or, more importantly, the motivation. Many times, we are emotionally exhausted, and we plod through life doing the bare minimum. For anything to change, your desire must be a burning one. Something that will instill a sense of urgency, allowing you to develop a disciplined plan of action. A plan that must be worked on without fail. Easy for me to say, it’s the doing that’s tough. Desire is the first step into creating change. You have to desire it intensely.

Thought, Attitude, and Perception

Your thoughts and perception as to how you view your life and the world around you is key to the development of your attitude towards people and life. Your attitude influences thoughts and the emotions that follow. Thoughts are things, and what you think about becomes your reality either by default or consciously. Your intentions and how you think about things are fueled into reality by your emotions. Negative or dark thoughts create negative and dark energy, which manifests into events and experiences most folks don’t want. Positive, pleasant, and loving thoughts bring similar events and experiences into your life. Remember, you reap what you sow, as like energy attracts like energy.

When you focus consciously with awareness on what you’re thinking and how it manifests in your life, you are in control of what you create. Your desire, coupled with your thoughts, words, and actions, creates your reality according to the Law of Attraction. On the other hand, ignorance of the Law of Attraction results in a haphazard means of bringing events and experiences into your life. You are then creating by default.

Emotions

You should develop a mindset regarding the terms right, wrong, good, and bad. We attach negative emotions when things don’t occur as planned. And we feel positive when they do. However, technically, there is no such thing as right or wrong, good or bad. It simply is what it is. Meaning, you either received the result you wanted, or you didn’t. Rather than let negative emotions take charge, simply consider a new course of action.

Results sometimes may not be what we desire, or things may not work out in our favor. We need to take the view that how it turned out simply is what it is, and we need to take a different course of action. We are trained to attach negative and positive emotions using the concept of right and wrong, good and bad. When things don’t go as planned attaching negative emotions to the outcome only feeds the negative, making situations worse.

If you can adapt to the adage that it just is what it is and move forward with alternative choices and thoughts until you achieve the results you desire, and life will flow easier. Retraining how you look at things creates a new perception, which is not negative. Detaching yourself from negative connotations defuses negative thoughts and emotions, keeping them out of your life.

Discipline and Perception

Discipline and perception are vital to your success. Don’t feel or believe you are a victim of life. Go deep within yourself, call out to Jesus for strength and guidance if necessary. Do all that you can to succeed. Attempt day by day to develop a system of discipline. Change how you see yourself, your life and the world around you. It’s all about perception. Change your current beliefs and attract new thoughts relative to those beliefs. Remember, when you keep doing what you’re doing, you keep on getting what you’re getting. You are a divine aspect of God; you are worthy of all things good. Co-Create with God a life of health, wealth and happiness, yes, you can do it with God, because you are loved.

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