DIVORCE: IS IT A SIN?

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Divorce, as taught by various religious institutions, is considered a sin. They believe that the sanctity of marriage must be preserved because it is a union joined together by God. Marriage is a covenant elected by the Souls involved during the planning stages before entering this life. However, in the Soul plan, it can be detailed that a divorce is meant to occur for a specific purpose. Not all divorces are part of a Soul plan, as they can happen naturally as a result of Free will decisions. The cause of the divorce and the effects of the events are experienced as lessons to enhance spiritual growth.

Free Will

You are a divine entity, with the Free will of God, an expression of All That Is, manifested in the physical world to experience life in duality. To experience what is positive or termed as Good, and that which is negative, termed as bad or evil, and all the variations in between.

You have the gifts of Free will and that as a co-creator with All That Is. Your thoughts generate your desires and intentions, which are fueled by your emotions and brought into reality. You are the decision maker for what you desire in life. You do as you please, the choices you make are the cause of your experiences, and what you experience is the effect of your choices. God intended you to be the source of your creations with the only caveat that you do no harm.

Life Experiences

Life experiences are part of our purpose for incarnating into physicality. While we all have a specific mission or purpose in life, multiple life events, pleasant and unpleasant, come into play. You entered this world veiled from your true identity as a divine being. You are meant to overcome difficulties, obstacles, and dark events that challenge you. Awakening to the truth of your worthiness as a child of God. A manifested expression of your Creator who creates life by personal choice and is meant to do so as your true self. Live life from the state of love, kindness, compassion, and service to others. This is what Jesus demonstrated with his life for all of us to model.

The Controllers

There are the controllers who secretly rule the Earth. They have been allowed to interfere in our lives because of their Free will. However, humanity was meant to evolve spiritually and to grow of our own accord. This interference prevents that, and in the coming years, changes will occur to allow us to stand on our own two feet and chart our destiny.

As a result of the controllers, humanity has been dumbed down as to our divine gifts. History shows how sacred knowledge was destroyed, and those practicing healing and who were aware of their divinity were hunted down, tortured, and slaughtered. Religion was created by the educated elite to suppress and control the uneducated masses. You were taught falsely about being a sinner and needing salvation that only religion could lead you to. However, the truth is you are an expression of God and require no salvation. If everyone knew and accepted the truth, religion would be out of business. The belief in sin creates guilt, and a false sense of self that hinders your spiritual evolution.

There is no sin, only error, and error is making choices that are harmful to others, and do not originate from the love and light that you are. Error and right action are self-correcting by what is called cause and effect. You reap what you sow applies to life. The choices are yours to make. Judgment and condemnation do not exist within the divine family. They are only human errors regarding others.

Divorce is not a sin. In many situations, it is necessary so you can continue your journey according to your Free will. A marriage with a controlling or abusive spouse prevents you from living life your way. If it interferes with being true to who you are, and you feel it necessary to move on in a new direction to grow. The decision is yours to make, and God does not punish you for it. It is ridiculous to think that you are given free will to make your own choices, and then for someone to tell you that there is punishment if you make a choice contrary to God. There is no will contrary to God.

It is important to remember that you are a divine expression of God; you are here to experience and to grow spiritually. You are a being of love and light, and there are those in darkness who do not want you to remember who you are. They do not want love and light. Relax and take comfort in the truth, live according to your dreams and desires, do so with passion and without fear.

PASSION THE FREEDOM TO BE YOU

Passion provides the freedom to be you. Following what you are passionate about creates miracles in your life. Passion fuels the necessary emotions to manifest a life of fulfillment. While life provides bumps in the road, maintaining the momentum of passionate emotions is important in keeping the flow. When your desires and goals turn into achievements, your life becomes meaningful, and you feel good about everything.

Freedom To Be You

You were created and given the freedom to be you. You have the Free Will of God to do anything your heart desires within the constraints of the laws of the Universe. However, you have the freedom to work against them, but doing so only creates discomfort and yields no benefit. The freedom to be you relates to your daily life. Do you choose to live freely as you desire, or do you choose to live life restricted by the demands or expectations of others to conform to what they deem it?

Are you giving your personal power away by conforming to the demands of others? How does it make you feel? Do you feel restricted, limited, frustrated, and unfulfilled? If so, you are not living life according to your free will. You are seeking your passion or desires. In so doing, you are denying yourself the freedom to be you. Take time to examine what feels impossible to you, what limitations frustrate you, and why. These are things that you have given away, the power to choose what gives you freedom to be you, to create life your way.

You do not need the acceptance or approval of others to live life your way. You are an individual physical expression of God, here to experience a full life. You have the gifts of Free Will and the gifts to co-create your reality as you see fit. Not according to someone else, they are responsible for themselves only. You can take back your personal power by first disciplining yourself to remain firm in creating life your way. Continuing to worry about what others think or say not only robs you of your personal freedom but also robs you of happiness and fulfillment, creating a miserable life for you.

Reclaiming Your Personal Power

In reclaiming your personal power, declare out loud, I claim my personal power. Affirm this when you feel challenged by others. Affirm ” I am much more than I have thought myself to be”. Keep in mind that if this statement is true for you, then it is true for everyone as well. They are indeed much more than what you thought them to be. When you see others in this way, your world will change from within.

Then there are those folks who will dislike others based on their looks or how they behave, and whose actions and beliefs differ from theirs. Differences bring variety to all of creation as it was intended to be. No two persons are alike, and no flower is exactly alike; there are always variances and subtle differences concerning how one looks, dresses, or chooses to live their life. This is how God intended it to be.

You were created like others to create and experience life according to your free will. You were designed to experience and overcome the challenge of separation and division. In so doing, you are meant to awaken to your true identity and origin. Live life your way, but do so as a loving child of God, and do no harm. Allow others the freedom to learn their own life lessons in their own way. just as you must live, learn, and experience in your own way.

Thoughts: Right or Wrong

Thoughts are things. Thoughts are creative and become form, manifesting into your reality based on your intentions and fueled by your emotions. When you are focused on your thoughts, aware of how they manifest in your life, you are in control. You are now in control of the creation of a life based on your desire. On the other hand, ignorance of the Law of Attraction results in a haphazard means of creating things or experiences in your life. You are now creating your life by default. Maintaining a state of awareness of our thoughts, how we think, and what we feel prevents a life of frustration and unfulfillment.

Right or Wrong

Technically, there is no right or wrong way of thinking. It simply is what it is. However, based on our human perception, we tend to classify things, events, and experiences as either right or wrong. Right thinking equals positive thinking and results. Wrong thinking equals negative thinking and results.

When you decide to do something or choose a specific course of action, there is no right or wrong in the decision or choice made. Your results may not be what you desired, or things did not work out in your favor. It just is what it is, an unfavorable or undesired result. Often, we tend to attach a negative or positive connotation to the belief of right or wrong. All this creates more negative emotions, fueling the power of additional negative thoughts, which serve to create more of the same in your life.

If you can develop the mindset to accept that outcomes, experiences, and events are what they are, and to move forward with different choices and thoughts until the results are what you desire. Retraining how you look at things will create a new perception that is not negative. The ability to detach yourself from negative connotations defuses negative thoughts and emotions. Preventing the attraction of more of the same.

Self Discipline

Again, it all comes back to self-discipline. I have spoken about determination, inner strength, grit, and self-discipline before, and will continue to do so in the future. The desire to change one’s life is a simple desire to determine. However, success will only come if you can become self-disciplined. For me, it took decades to get my butt in gear. I paid for the delay with frustration and loss of opportunities for a better quality of life. I read every major book on manifestation, spirituality, and self-help. I would get pumped up only to fall back to my old ways. It took a night of darkness and pain for me to call out for help.

Some folks do not care about developing self-discipline. Or to change their attitude into something positive and uplifting. They continue as is, even though their thoughts and demeanor have brought them poor results in their lives.

Desire to change, while it may be difficult at first. You will have weak moments falling back into old ways of thinking. But work on catching yourself when you do, and think of something positive, or something you are grateful for. Develop in your mind that, despite what occurs, you will never give up. A great deal is al about perception, how you see yourself, your life, and the world around you. Changing your current beliefs and attracting new thoughts relative to your new beliefs.

Please keep in mind that you are worthy and deserve only the best. You are a divine physical extension of God, individualized. God does not create junk; you are a divine child with the gifts of free will and the ability to co-create with God a wonderful life.

Anger

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Anger is a negative emotional state. While there are various levels of anger, mild or severe, it creates devastating events in your life and for those around you. Everything is energy operating at various frequencies. Anger is low-frequency negative energy, and like energy attracts more of itself into your life. The problem with being angry is that it can fester and grow into something out of control. Many people are angry in a way that frustrates them into a state of desperation because they do not want to feel this way. They feel depressed, trapped in a cycle that breeds more dark emotions and events into their lives.

Why do we get angry? The reasons are too many to count. One must go quietly within to discern the why. Unfortunately, many are too busy being angry and miserable to calm down enough to take corrective action. Then some like to wallow in self-pity because it provides a false sense of justification for their feelings. There is not much to assist them as long as they prefer to remain in that emotional state.

Perhaps you are angry with your current place in life. Your husband left you with two children, and you are struggling financially to survive, and your children are young and confused about why he left. Many events in life create similar emotions, such as a loss of a job, family abandonment, and betrayal. And then there is the anger of oneself. Angry because you feel unworthy, unwanted, and unloved. You constantly put yourself down, and these emotions affect your behavior, manifesting undesirable consequences in your life.

Living daily in this frame of mind will not cease to exist because this energy provides food for the Archons, who feed off your energy. You attract them into your life and those around you. They seek out those whose frequencies match theirs. They are low frequency beings that we must overcome as part of your life experience of duality. Remember you are an individualized manifestation of God. You have within you the power to maintain control of your life. The first step to creating a better life is to understand who you are and what you are capable of.

Misery: How To Overcome

As with anything in life, without change, misery will continue until you desire to eliminate it. When you keep on doing what you’re doing, you keep getting what you’re getting. You sincerely desire change, to begin with. You must let go of any justification to be mad or resentful. Some will wake up and take action to change immediately. Others will wallow in pain until the pain becomes unbearable and only then will they change. The choice remains yours.

As a physical manifestation of God, you are a co-creator of your life, your reality, and all that is either positive or negative. Your thoughts, words, and actions are creative. You and your life become what you think about. You must refocus your thoughts, your frame of mind, and all that holds you back. You are a loved and worthy person because of your divinity. You have to take hold of that thought and affirm other loving, positive attributes of yourself. God created you out of love and compassion. They understand and appreciate your willingness to experience physical life in duality. For those who have been hurt by abandonment and loss your current struggles can vanish. First, you, as God manifested, must put negative feelings aside and leave them in the past. Today is what counts, as it determines your future. Train your mind to see only the positive things in life. State I am grateful for the love of God, I am grateful for the love of my children. I am grateful for the flowers in my garden. Sincere gratitude brings more good into your life and generates good feelings. Using the Law of Attraction principles, along with the belief that by virtue of who you are, all will come to you.

Never be afraid to call upon your divine parents for guidance. Nothing fancy, just as if talking to a family member. Once you begin to stay aware of your thoughts, you will have moments where you fall backwards. That’s normal, let the thoughts and emotions happen, but don’t dwell on them. Attempt to replace them with a positive thought or something pleasant. Yes, it’s a tough road to travel; hold on to the desire for creating a better life. Pay attention to what good manifests in your life and offer thanks. Stay the course, and your life will change for the better. Keep in mind that bumps in the road will continue to occur. But they will be minor compared to what you experienced in the past. You are never alone, as you have guides and others who, through intuition and prompting who are lovingly assisting you on your journey.

Law of Attraction: Understanding the Basics

The law of attraction is a topic that has been written about by many. Yet in the majority of the information provided, one key factor is missing. The law of attraction is a law of love, a law or system for creation. As a divine expression of God manifested, you were given their ability of Free Will as a co-creator with them in creating a life that you desire. It’s their loving desire for you to experience a loving life, through the creation of your own health, wealth, and happiness, with only one limitation, and that is to do no harm. Jesus said to his disciples, “What I can do you can do as well”. All of creation is the energy of God and begins with a thought, a desire, followed by intention, and is fueled by emotions.

Never become attached to emotions of desperation, frustration, or depression over the lack of desire in your life, as you are then expanding energy that creates a state of being of lack or wanting. You are meant to be here to create a positive and loving life, and to awaken to the truth of your God-Self.

God does not desire for you to create a life of negativity, although mankind has learned to do so. God desires that you should remember who you are. And, as a result, to bring forth your love and light, your God energy of power and likeness into the world. You, by your knowing and shining your light outwards, is to glorify God. Say to yourself, I am God and all that is love and good. I need nothing outside myself I look inward to God for all I need, and I create positive things for the glory of God.

Consequence of Creation

Everything that is created has consequences. What we choose to create has positive or negative ramifications. The results of your creation will affect you long after the object, events, or circumstances manifest in your life. So, it is important to select carefully what you bring into your life via your thoughts, actions, and emotions. For those who are ignorant of this information or, who fail to accept that thoughts create reality, will create a haphazard life by default. I myself have experienced a mod-podge of chaotic events mixed in with positive experiences, all by default. In many situations, it creates more sad, dark, and unwanted events, resulting in pain and suffering.

Within the law of attraction, there exists no need outside of yourself. Do not create from a state of needing, but from a state of acceptance. Create by remembering what you already have. You are already loved, you’re already wealthy, and you’re perfection. Your life will never improve until you consciously create through your daily thoughts. Remain vigilant about how you feel about what you are currently thinking. When a doubt or negative thought pops in, immediately replace it with something positive or uplifting. Don’t dwell on anything negative; always look for the good in all things.

Visualization: Mental Movies

Visualization, be aware of the scenes, the mental movies that play out in your head. Visualizing a negative event or rehashing old wounds playing out in your head only serves to create more of the same. The law of attraction works with like energy attracting like energy. Depression, fear, and hatred only attract more of the same in your life. Likewise, love, compassion, kindness, and gratitude attract the same as well. What you choose for thoughts, coupled by your emotions and actions, is the cause of what you experience. What you experience is the effect. The positive or negative energy you create flows outwards into the world. It affects your family, friends, and neighbors. It has a cumulative effect with other energies of its kind.

Remember to play in your mind mental movies, a visualization of what you desire. If its a new home, cut out photos of attractive homes. Look at classifieds, visit an open house. Keep the images along with the desire fresh in your mind. Imagine yourself living in the home, participating in family activities. This is taking action, and visualization, daydreaming keeps everything fresh, feeding your subconscious mind what it needs to manifest. Don’t forget a big desire; may take time to manifest. As the universe has to move things about to line them up with your life. For example, it could result in losing your job so that you can obtain one that pays more. Never feel frustrated, remain patient, and have faith that what you ask for you will receive. Believe as if you are already in possession and that it’s on its way.

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