Thoughts are things. Thoughts are creative and become form, manifesting into your reality based on your intentions and fueled by your emotions. When you are focused on your thoughts, aware of how they manifest in your life, you are in control. You are now in control of the creation of a life based on your desire. On the other hand, ignorance of the Law of Attraction results in a haphazard means of creating things or experiences in your life. You are now creating your life by default. Maintaining a state of awareness of our thoughts, how we think, and what we feel prevents a life of frustration and unfulfillment.
Right or Wrong
Technically, there is no right or wrong way of thinking. It simply is what it is. However, based on our human perception, we tend to classify things, events, and experiences as either right or wrong. Right thinking equals positive thinking and results. Wrong thinking equals negative thinking and results.
When you decide to do something or choose a specific course of action, there is no right or wrong in the decision or choice made. Your results may not be what you desired, or things did not work out in your favor. It just is what it is, an unfavorable or undesired result. Often, we tend to attach a negative or positive connotation to the belief of right or wrong. All this creates more negative emotions, fueling the power of additional negative thoughts, which serve to create more of the same in your life.
If you can develop the mindset to accept that outcomes, experiences, and events are what they are, and to move forward with different choices and thoughts until the results are what you desire. Retraining how you look at things will create a new perception that is not negative. The ability to detach yourself from negative connotations defuses negative thoughts and emotions. Preventing the attraction of more of the same.
Self Discipline
Again, it all comes back to self-discipline. I have spoken about determination, inner strength, grit, and self-discipline before, and will continue to do so in the future. The desire to change one’s life is a simple desire to determine. However, success will only come if you can become self-disciplined. For me, it took decades to get my butt in gear. I paid for the delay with frustration and loss of opportunities for a better quality of life. I read every major book on manifestation, spirituality, and self-help. I would get pumped up only to fall back to my old ways. It took a night of darkness and pain for me to call out for help.
Some folks do not care about developing self-discipline. Or to change their attitude into something positive and uplifting. They continue as is, even though their thoughts and demeanor have brought them poor results in their lives.
Desire to change, while it may be difficult at first. You will have weak moments falling back into old ways of thinking. But work on catching yourself when you do, and think of something positive, or something you are grateful for. Develop in your mind that, despite what occurs, you will never give up. A great deal is al about perception, how you see yourself, your life, and the world around you. Changing your current beliefs and attracting new thoughts relative to your new beliefs.
Please keep in mind that you are worthy and deserve only the best. You are a divine physical extension of God, individualized. God does not create junk; you are a divine child with the gifts of free will and the ability to co-create with God a wonderful life.