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DIVORCE: IS IT A SIN?

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Divorce, as taught by various religious institutions, is considered a sin. They believe that the sanctity of marriage must be preserved because it is a union joined together by God. Marriage is a covenant elected by the Souls involved during the planning stages before entering this life. However, in the Soul plan, it can be detailed that a divorce is meant to occur for a specific purpose. Not all divorces are part of a Soul plan, as they can happen naturally as a result of Free will decisions. The cause of the divorce and the effects of the events are experienced as lessons to enhance spiritual growth.

Free Will

You are a divine entity, with the Free will of God, an expression of All That Is, manifested in the physical world to experience life in duality. To experience what is positive or termed as Good, and that which is negative, termed as bad or evil, and all the variations in between.

You have the gifts of Free will and that as a co-creator with All That Is. Your thoughts generate your desires and intentions, which are fueled by your emotions and brought into reality. You are the decision maker for what you desire in life. You do as you please, the choices you make are the cause of your experiences, and what you experience is the effect of your choices. God intended you to be the source of your creations with the only caveat that you do no harm.

Life Experiences

Life experiences are part of our purpose for incarnating into physicality. While we all have a specific mission or purpose in life, multiple life events, pleasant and unpleasant, come into play. You entered this world veiled from your true identity as a divine being. You are meant to overcome difficulties, obstacles, and dark events that challenge you. Awakening to the truth of your worthiness as a child of God. A manifested expression of your Creator who creates life by personal choice and is meant to do so as your true self. Live life from the state of love, kindness, compassion, and service to others. This is what Jesus demonstrated with his life for all of us to model.

The Controllers

There are the controllers who secretly rule the Earth. They have been allowed to interfere in our lives because of their Free will. However, humanity was meant to evolve spiritually and to grow of our own accord. This interference prevents that, and in the coming years, changes will occur to allow us to stand on our own two feet and chart our destiny.

As a result of the controllers, humanity has been dumbed down as to our divine gifts. History shows how sacred knowledge was destroyed, and those practicing healing and who were aware of their divinity were hunted down, tortured, and slaughtered. Religion was created by the educated elite to suppress and control the uneducated masses. You were taught falsely about being a sinner and needing salvation that only religion could lead you to. However, the truth is you are an expression of God and require no salvation. If everyone knew and accepted the truth, religion would be out of business. The belief in sin creates guilt, and a false sense of self that hinders your spiritual evolution.

There is no sin, only error, and error is making choices that are harmful to others, and do not originate from the love and light that you are. Error and right action are self-correcting by what is called cause and effect. You reap what you sow applies to life. The choices are yours to make. Judgment and condemnation do not exist within the divine family. They are only human errors regarding others.

Divorce is not a sin. In many situations, it is necessary so you can continue your journey according to your Free will. A marriage with a controlling or abusive spouse prevents you from living life your way. If it interferes with being true to who you are, and you feel it necessary to move on in a new direction to grow. The decision is yours to make, and God does not punish you for it. It is ridiculous to think that you are given free will to make your own choices, and then for someone to tell you that there is punishment if you make a choice contrary to God. There is no will contrary to God.

It is important to remember that you are a divine expression of God; you are here to experience and to grow spiritually. You are a being of love and light, and there are those in darkness who do not want you to remember who you are. They do not want love and light. Relax and take comfort in the truth, live according to your dreams and desires, do so with passion and without fear.

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CHOICES: CAUSE AND EFFECT

Life is all about making choices. Each choice creates a cause and effect. The act of making a choice requires thought, emotion, and action within a framework that is either positive or negative. We make millions of creative choices every day, from what appears insignificant, such as what to have for dinner, to a major event such as purchasing a home. All have a collective creative consequence within your life, and often, we give little to no thought about them.

Positive and Negative Energy

All of creation, big or small, is a result of the manipulation of positive and negative energy. These energies vibrate at a high or low frequency and attract more of the same events and experiences accordingly in your life. Your thoughts and emotions determine the creative direction of the choices and decisions you act upon. For many who are unaware of the law of cause and effect, life is a creation by default.

Creating your life consciously is key to achieving your dreams and desires. However, it is easy to say watch your thoughts when your emotions also play a significant role. Our personalities, attitudes, and self-esteem together contribute to the creative outcome. If one angers easily and is prone to negativity, that is the energy put out, and that is what you will receive back in events or experiences. Thoughts and acts of love and kindness return to you in the same way. You receive what you put forth.

Energy generated individually moves outward into your life and beyond. It has a cumulative effect on the family and spreads outward into the community and beyond, like energy is attracted to itself.

Change is The Solution

Stating that change is the solution may seem obvious. You may think, well, I have been this way for most of my life, and I have a right to be angry or hurt because of what others have done or because of the pain I have been through. Anger, pain, and being wronged are some of life’s experiences. However, it is necessary to dig deep within oneself to work through these negative situations, as failure to do so is not an option for positive change. The solution is simple and obvious; the difficulty is mustering up the courage to change.

It is said, “Change your thoughts, change your life”. Wow, that is a no-brainer. But, how? Easier said than done. Aside from stating that discipline is key, setting the desire, and making and working a plan. There are a lot of psychological issues involved. No two people experience similar events or trauma in the same way. Some are more resilient and stronger than others. Then some are weaker due to self-esteem issues, or are prone to fear, doubt, and anxiety. Some are fighters and bounce back, while others cave in.

The Breaking Point

Then there is the breaking point. The push comes to shove, get off your butt, do or die situation of desperation. For this author, it took years of experiencing a negative life, the darkness of wanting to end it all. But the feeling of tiredness from the struggle was not as strong as my deep longing for a better life. Something inside me kept me desiring something more meaningful. It was a nagging and would not go away. You could say it was my soul, or my spirit guides, or angels, intuitively tugging at my innate desire to matter, to have a life worth living.

One night, when desperate, I did something I rarely do I prayed to Jesus, telling him what I desired, and that I did not want to give in to the dark. It was more conversation than a formal prayer. My answer came unexpectedly. You just have to pay attention to intuition and synchronicities.

There is goodness in all of us. God does not create junk, expressions of unworthiness. Those feelings come from our Ego, and a false understanding of who we believe we are. Remember, Cause and effect, what we think about, and the choices we make set in motion how one’s life will evolve. You have the mind and Will of God; you can make the change.

You are loved, do not give up. You are not alone.

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LOVE IN SEARCH OF

Man was created out of divine love. The primary law for all creation is that of love. We came into this world veiled, ignorant of all knowledge of who we are and our origin. As Spiritual beings, we have full knowledge of the profoundness of love and its relationship to creation. Here in life, we come into a world, and from birth, we are unknowledgeable as to who we are and what we are about to experience as physical life.

From birth, emotions, fears, beliefs, and our sense of self and the world around us come from our parents. We learn from our environment, at home, at school, and through religion. Our experiences growing up determine how we relate to others. If you grew up in a loving home, your perception and understanding of love were shaped by what your parents displayed. This was how you learned to love. Unfortunately, in a dysfunctional home, your perception and understanding may have some negative aspects associated with what is loving.

LOVE IS LEARNED

Love is learned since birth. We experience love in a limited manner, as we believe that love lives dormant within each of us. However, what we have learned is insufficient. Our lack of knowledge results in confusion and loneliness. Many fear being hurt in a relationship, while others experience frustration because they do not know how to begin. Most of us spend our lives searching for love, often look in the wrong places, and die before even discovering it. What most of us have learned has come upon us indirectly, by accident or trial and error.

MISCONCEPTION

Misconceptions exist that alter our perception of what love is. Some believe that love just happens, love at first sight, no work needed, you simply fall in love. Yet we form relationships with others out of love who know little of what love is. Often, it is identified with romance, need, sex, and many other things.

If we truly know how to love, then why is there so much loneliness and feelings of unfulfillment? Why do we seem to be looking for something more? Why is the divorce rate so high, and why are there so many suffering as a result?

LEARNING TO LOVE

As an aspect of an extension of God, ALL THAT IS, in spirit, we are pure love, pure potential. And it is the failure to remember who we are that makes us feel limited and unable to love. We are limitless in our potential to love, and it is waiting to be developed and to grow. It is never too late to learn what you have as potential. Do you desire to learn to love? Then you must begin to discover what it involves. Have you ever thought about what qualities make up a loving person?

If one desires to know love, one must be love in action. Love means to give oneself completely without any guarantee. You give completely, hoping that another will love you in return. Love is about trust and faith. Ideally, perfect love asks for nothing and expects nothing. When you do not ask for anything or expect anything, you cannot be hurt or disappointed. When demands are made in love, you bring misery upon yourself.

People can only give from what they are capable of from within, and not what you wish that they give. One is loving because it is their will. It provides comfort and a knowing that growth and self-discovery rely upon it. You are learning to love when you place no conditions on it

Jesus’s life is the perfect example of love. He loved everyone unconditionally. Neither race, social status, nor gender was an issue. Jesus knew that we are all aspects of ALL THAT IS. That we are all brothers and sisters. Everyone was loved simply for who they are. His inclusion of women as apostles and students frustrated the men. As in the culture of the time, women were valued slightly above animals. But, Jesus, knew otherwise.

Today, we display disdain when it comes to others’ ethnicity, culture, or sexual preference. This is not learning to love. Kindness, compassion, understanding, and lending a helping hand to all is the formula for love. Develop a process for loving, and you will be loved. Put it into action and demonstrate it in your life and interactions with others. Remember, the greatest Spiritual Law is the Law of Love, and what you put out into life returns likewise to you

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YOU ARE NOT HOW YOU WERE RAISED

You are not how you were raised; is a statement not meant to be derogatory. As an infant, you had no choice as to what living environment, religion, culture, or political belief systems you would be exposed to. You may have had well-meaning parents who taught you what they learned through life. Your religion, social status, and sense of being, along with your morals, were taught or influenced you based on what your parents deemed appropriate.

Your parents are your first teachers in life. A loving and stable home is important; however, your personality and beliefs are initially shaped by your parents. Conversely, an unstable or dysfunctional household shapes you accordingly. Ironically, some rebel in either situation due to external influences. As you age, your perception of your living environment and how you are treated can shift either positively or negatively.

External influences involve those who have power or control over you, such as your schoolteachers, Pastor, or Ministers. The friends you select, employers, and associates all have an impact on how you perceive yourself and the world around you

WHAT YOU WERE TAUGHT

What you were taught was determined for you. You did not ask to be Catholic; you assumed from your parents’ belief system that this was a correct path. Your primary education was determined for you by the government. Wherever you acquired information that set your beliefs as they are, came from others, and you felt for one reason or another that they are true or possibly accurate.

So, for you, these truths are concrete. Do they resonate with you, and do you hold fast to them? Many become entrenched in a belief and are adamant about their sense of right or wrong. They hold the line, refusing to accept that there is always something more or missing from their truth. Knowledge is not static; you must keep an open mind that new information is available that will either disprove or clarify what you accept as truth.

TRUTH SEEKERS

All of mankind must be truth seekers throughout their life’s journey. There are many lies and misinformation aimed at everyone to control your beliefs and sway your opinions. All for a specific agenda, not necessarily for your best interest. Additionally, what you have been taught about religion, politics, and life in general may not resonate within you. You may either think differently or feel frustrated because something may feel illogical.

From your birth, you had no input into what you were taught to believe. You have free will, intellect, and a mind of your own. Your life is meant for you to live according to your desires, your beliefs, and you must continue to seek more than there is. Yes, you can listen to others around you, and you can read various information. You have the choice to either reject it outright or if it feels logical or comfortable, then accept it as your current truth until something comes along to change how you feel or believe. However, just because something seems illogical does not make it incorrect. Keep some information at bay, for further reference.

Be yourself, as you are a unique individual. You can stand on your own; you do not need to be a part of the crowd. Never allow criticism from others to sway you, because you do not conform to their way of thinking. They have their life, their thoughts, their beliefs, and you can respect that and remain true to yourself. Yet, we live in a world where some get angry if others challenge their beliefs or opinions. They do not respect yours. Just move on because you do not need to persuade them. It is all about receiving information and choosing to accept or reject, no persuasion needed.

LIFE’S PATH

Walking your life’s path, how you live and act should be via your genuine self. Do not ignore the you that you desire to be. Be true to yourself and never live your life through the eyes of others, because unhappiness and frustration will follow. The most difficult thing in life is to be someone you are not.

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Anger

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Anger is a negative emotional state. While there are various levels of anger, mild or severe, it creates devastating events in your life and for those around you. Everything is energy operating at various frequencies. Anger is low-frequency negative energy, and like energy attracts more of itself into your life. The problem with being angry is that it can fester and grow into something out of control. Many people are angry in a way that frustrates them into a state of desperation because they do not want to feel this way. They feel depressed, trapped in a cycle that breeds more dark emotions and events into their lives.

Why do we get angry? The reasons are too many to count. One must go quietly within to discern the why. Unfortunately, many are too busy being angry and miserable to calm down enough to take corrective action. Then some like to wallow in self-pity because it provides a false sense of justification for their feelings. There is not much to assist them as long as they prefer to remain in that emotional state.

Perhaps you are angry with your current place in life. Your husband left you with two children, and you are struggling financially to survive, and your children are young and confused about why he left. Many events in life create similar emotions, such as a loss of a job, family abandonment, and betrayal. And then there is the anger of oneself. Angry because you feel unworthy, unwanted, and unloved. You constantly put yourself down, and these emotions affect your behavior, manifesting undesirable consequences in your life.

Living daily in this frame of mind will not cease to exist because this energy provides food for the Archons, who feed off your energy. You attract them into your life and those around you. They seek out those whose frequencies match theirs. They are low frequency beings that we must overcome as part of your life experience of duality. Remember you are an individualized manifestation of God. You have within you the power to maintain control of your life. The first step to creating a better life is to understand who you are and what you are capable of.

Misery: How To Overcome

As with anything in life, without change, misery will continue until you desire to eliminate it. When you keep on doing what you’re doing, you keep getting what you’re getting. You sincerely desire change, to begin with. You must let go of any justification to be mad or resentful. Some will wake up and take action to change immediately. Others will wallow in pain until the pain becomes unbearable and only then will they change. The choice remains yours.

As a physical manifestation of God, you are a co-creator of your life, your reality, and all that is either positive or negative. Your thoughts, words, and actions are creative. You and your life become what you think about. You must refocus your thoughts, your frame of mind, and all that holds you back. You are a loved and worthy person because of your divinity. You have to take hold of that thought and affirm other loving, positive attributes of yourself. God created you out of love and compassion. They understand and appreciate your willingness to experience physical life in duality. For those who have been hurt by abandonment and loss your current struggles can vanish. First, you, as God manifested, must put negative feelings aside and leave them in the past. Today is what counts, as it determines your future. Train your mind to see only the positive things in life. State I am grateful for the love of God, I am grateful for the love of my children. I am grateful for the flowers in my garden. Sincere gratitude brings more good into your life and generates good feelings. Using the Law of Attraction principles, along with the belief that by virtue of who you are, all will come to you.

Never be afraid to call upon your divine parents for guidance. Nothing fancy, just as if talking to a family member. Once you begin to stay aware of your thoughts, you will have moments where you fall backwards. That’s normal, let the thoughts and emotions happen, but don’t dwell on them. Attempt to replace them with a positive thought or something pleasant. Yes, it’s a tough road to travel; hold on to the desire for creating a better life. Pay attention to what good manifests in your life and offer thanks. Stay the course, and your life will change for the better. Keep in mind that bumps in the road will continue to occur. But they will be minor compared to what you experienced in the past. You are never alone, as you have guides and others who, through intuition and prompting who are lovingly assisting you on your journey.

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Escape The Darkness of Life

The ability to escape the darkness of life has been a yoke around the neck of man since birth. Our lives from birth is as varied as the billions of individuals existing on this planet. We have been divided and separated by geography, culture, language, religion, and belief systems. Our perception of the world and the people around us has been influenced by all the above. Our parents, teachers, religious leaders, and those in government influenced how we perceived our faith or lack of it. They shaped our beliefs based on what we were taught in school, in church, and by the rules of society and government.

We accepted what we learned from our family, as there was no reason not to. Our parents were passing on what they had learned and believed to be correct. Unfortunately, some of us grew up in unstable homes. And what was experienced as life was passed on from one generation to the next. Yet many who come from loving homes can develop a feeling that something in life is lacking. They attempt to resolve this feeling of inadequacy through improper behavior. One can come from a loving home and perceive that they are unloved or unworthy.

There are many reasons for someone to feel bitter, angry, and hateful about how life has treated them as a child. Over time, these negative emotions fester and feed your thoughts, making your life extremely miserable. Ironically, some folks may perceive a minor life event negatively. The event will replay chronically in their mind, consuming their daily life. Creating and experiencing life in this way is not what our divine parents intended for their children.

What we must learn to remember is that we are Spiritual beings having a physical experience. We, our souls are an aspect of our divine parents manifested into the physical. We were given our own identity and God’s Free will to co-create life according to our desires. We exist so that God can discover all probabilities and possibilities within experiences, so that they can know themselves. God is not a physical form, but a vast field of energy, intelligent, conscious, and aware of itself. However, how can one know themselves without experiencing contrast, opposites, with no points of reference?

We are all extensions of this field, individualized with our own sense of identity, talents, characteristics, and emotional sensitivity. Our world is one of duality, opposites, and contrast. Everything has an opposite, such as up and down, hot and cold, and what we term good and evil.

However, there is something more important than just experience. It is how we experience life. It is living life from a state of harmony and love with our creator. God is pure love and compassion, we have free will, but with the caveat of do no harm. We are meant to create a full life while overcoming the challenges of darkness. The dark and negative events of life that get in our way. Incarnating into this world of duality results in our forgetting our divine origin. Our primary goal is to awaken to who we are and to live life accordingly.

Escape the Darkness Through Awakening

How does one escape the darkness? Part of the answer lies deep within yourself. Your mind is the builder of your life, your thoughts, words, and actions, fed by your emotions, bring it into reality. Develop a state of gratitude. Repeat to yourself throughout the day what you are thankful for: Dear God, I am thankful for my children, I am thankful for my medicine, I am thankful for my beautiful plants. Do not allow yourself to be distracted by the chaos in the world, by ego pride, or materialism. Do not be concerned with what others may think or say about you. While difficult, accept that it is they who have a problem, ask God to bless, and live your life with confidence as God intends for you.

Spirit Guides

We are not alone in this world. What is known as Spirit Guides, humans who have advanced to the fifth dimension, are part of our support system. Each of us has a primary guide who works energetically by giving us intuitive nudges or urges to follow a specific direction. Sometimes your guide can create an event in your life that appears negative, like losing your job. However, that may be necessary in guiding you to a better position.

Okay, you know you have help. But in many situations, such as this author., You have to hit rock bottom first. A point where pain and desperation is so severe you break down and ultimately call out to Jesus. When you call out to Jesus or God, do so with sincerity, and they will respond. The key is to remain aware and watch for their answers. It is not always a quiet voice in your head. It could be something as simple as words of a song, a message in a show you are watching, or being guided to a book or article. It can also be in a dream, a recurring thought, such as a strong feeling that you need to do something.

Bad Habits

Bad habits will block your progress. Many people are stuck in their misery and have difficulty breaking the chain of feeling like a victim, that the world and God are working against them. Your ego, your false self, feeds you thoughts of fear, doubt, anger, and all that’s negative. When your energy is vibrating at a low frequency of negativity, it only attracts more of the same. Some relish feeling angry; they incorrectly believe that they feel better when they have someone to blame. Blame never solves anything. It only fuels the fires of darkness through the energy of anger, hatred, and fear. Dwelling in pain and sorrow only brings more of the same.

You are a loved divine expression of God. You must fight to alter your thinking to what’s positive in your life. Focus on the little things first. It is normal to fall back to a moment of negativity. But you must respond to it with a feeling of love, or a small positive thought. Doing so minimizes any negative effect.

When you are exhausted, fearful, tired of living in pain, tired of illness, or any struggle that makes you negative. My advice is to find a quiet spot, call upon God or Jesus, talk as if speaking to a friend, tell them how lousy you feel, how bad things are. Ask them for help in letting go of all your troubles. After asking, try to think about one positive thing every day. It could be something as simple as saying, ” Wow, my rose plant is beautiful and pleasant, or my dog loves me unconditionally, I am grateful. Sounds silly, but it opens the door to feeling better when you look for the little positive things. Gratitude, which is sincere, works wonders in one’s life.

Dark Forces

Dark forces exist that feed off the energy that your negativity creates. They also work on you, telepathically placing negative or dark thoughts in your mind. From my experience, dark thoughts that life was worth nothing, as I was a failure. Fearful feelings of aloneness, that I was condemned to hell. I believe that my life was for nothing, that now all I had was old age and physical pain from my disability. Thoughts filled my head that I would be better off dead. But fortunately, something inside me fought back, allowing me to be angry because I wanted something more. I cried because I wanted a life of purpose, utility, and meaning. In desperation, I called out to Jesus, told him all that I felt. How I failed, that I fear God and condemnation because religion made me feel this way. That I desired to know God intimately but did not know how to relate, and that I desired to be of meaningful service.

Well, the answer that saved me mentally and spiritually came in a most unexpected way. I will say it now involves my ability to communicate with my spirit guide late in life.

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Discovering Your Meaningful Life

It’s A Meaningful Life How To Discover Yours

Normally, you probably don’t lie awake at night worrying whether your life has purpose or meaning. Your mind is usually busy, filled with thoughts about your irritable boss, your child needing braces, or what you are going to do for the weekend.

It’s easy to get caught up in the daily routine of living. It’s later, when the big stuff hits you that you begin to wonder whether your life has a purpose or is meaningful. Life events such as a divorce, loss of a loved one, diagnosis of a serious illness, or disability can cause you to begin questioning life’s purpose or meaning. There are times when you feel like your daily life has become unbearable.

It’s at this point that knowing and understanding what matters is important to you. You want a life full of love, joy, peace and happiness. Additionally, it’s knowing what’s important that can lead to the “How” in bringing into your life your desires.

What Is A Meaningful Life

Some believe that life is simply a joy ride. Others may feel that life is about learning lessons. And for others, life means we’re here to experience life for God or to discover enlightenment. Then there are some folks who ultimately go through life believing that there is no real purpose or meaning at all. What I am speaking about here isn’t a philosophical context or idea. I’m talking about the push comes to shove meaningfulness that empowers your true everyday life. The only meaning that counts is the meaning you give to your life. A life meaning and purpose that is individualized to you specifically. It’s not your mother’s purpose, and it’s not your father’s purpose or that of anyone else. What matters most is what is meaningful to you, and only you.

A life of meaning and purpose is something you give to yourself. It’s not a one-size-fits-all theory that’s out in the cosmos. It’s something you bring forth into your life by how you see what values you wish to live by, and the choices you make. What you see as meaningful is based on how you interpret life events, your faith, your beliefs, experiences, the people, and the world around you. Also, it’s the level of importance that you place on what you interpret/perceive.

Why Meaning Is Important

Man is unique from other living beings because throughout time, man has been a seeker of the meaning of life. A life without meaning or purpose is a life without love, empty of positive emotions, and lacking contentment. Everything becomes a chronic search for a substitute to fill the emptiness. The obtaining of power, wealth, and self-gratification is temporary. It simply creates a state of frustrated emotions, leaving you wanting more.

Your life becomes enriched when your desires come to you naturally as a result of your passion, love, and willingness to serve others. Keeping a focused attention on your desires, dreams, and goals within your mind, coupled with maintaining a positive mindset about the life you desire, will assist in bringing everything to fruition

Being aware of your thoughts and your emotions, knowing what matters and what you desire from life, will give you a comfortable feeling of purpose. A life of purpose allows you to move forward, finding new ways to express yourself. You will learn to like and love yourself. Your feelings of self-love will propel your sense of self-worth and personal satisfaction. You benefit from the ability to experience and grow each day. Your knowledge and understanding give you the strength to create your life as you desire and deserve it to be,

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